Who sits at the Head Table?

At the wedding reception the head table is where the Bride and Groom sit. From there it is completely up to you on who else you want to sit with you. Depending on the arrangement, some or all attendants and parents may join you. Remember there is not wrong choice, decide together and if all fails -- paper rock, scissors!  

The Sweetheart Table

A table for just the two of you as you’ll be the focal point of the room. Traditionally, the groom sits on the right of the bride.  Our sweet heart table at the Wright House can be a 36” round or 4’ rectangle.

The Party Table

The party table is usually a rectangular table at the focal point of the room for the bride, groom, the maid of honor, and the best man. The other attendants and their significant others may sit at the head table it there is enough space. Here at The Wright House we can fit up to 12-14 on a long rectangular table or two round table tops next to your sweet hear table with a grand total of 18!

Carrie Patricia Studios

Carrie Patricia Studios

The Family Table

This arrangement honors the couple parents by sitting them at the head table along with the maid of honor and the best man.

What about the ushers, ring bearer and flower girls? The rest of the bridal party can sit at a reserved table closet to the bride and groom with other close friends and family.  

Mike Olbinski

Mike Olbinski

Wedding Tip:

Don’t order an extra head table center piece – save the money and use your bridesmaids and your bouquet in a vase as the centers for the table.  The bouquets will have a second purpose after the ceremony instead of being just placed at a random table forgotten.  

Lexy Popa Photography

Lexy Popa Photography

 

Remember there is no bad choice - it's completely up to you and what makes your life easier. Think about the dynamics of the groups, your seating chart and what your venue offers, all this will help you making it work! 

XOXO

Will you be my Maid of Honor?

You’ve asked her to be your maid of honor and she said – YES! Let’s help a sister out – share this major duty check-list with the Maid (Matron) of Honor.

Always Timeless Productions

Always Timeless Productions

Before the Wedding

  •  Lead the bridal party
  • Help shop with the bride: wedding attire  
  • Host/co-host the bridal shower
  •  Plan the Bachelorette Party

Wedding Day: Pre-Ceremony

  • Get dressed with bride
  • Serve as messenger between the couple
  • Keep the bride calm
  • Help keep things on schedule

Wedding Day: Ceremony

  •  Walk down the aisle
  • Hold the bride’s bouquet
  • Arrange the bride’s train/veil
  •  Sign the marriage license as a witness

Wedding Day: Reception

  • Play Host
  • Help bustle the brides train
  • Give a toast
  • Dance at the reception 
Always Timeless Productions

Always Timeless Productions

See full list in details at WEDDINGWIRE! https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-ideas/the-ultimate-maid-of-honor-duties-checklist

No matter what happens- just be there for the Bride! She chose you as the Maid (Matron) of Honor and it because you have been there for her since day one!

XOXO

The Speech

Over the years we have heard many amazing speeches given to our wedding couples. We also have heard a few not so amazing speeches that make us eek as we wish they had just a bit more structure. Today, we are giving you the secret formula to make the best speech out there!

Attention all Maids of Honor, Best Men and Parents – follow the SECRET FORMULA and we promise your speech will be one to remember.

Benjamin Clifford Photography 

Benjamin Clifford Photography 

The Secret Speech Formula

  •  Introduce Yourself

Surprise, not everyone knows your relationship to the couple; Parents share a little something about yourself too.

  • Personal/Sweet story about the couple

 Key words- the couple! Yes, you could be the Maid of Honor or the Best Man but you should talk about the couple in whole. We promise, it will mean more years later.

  • Funny/Sweet story about your own feelings towards why the couple is great for each other

 Yes, once again you are talking about the couple! This time you are telling your feelings about them together and really think about why they are good for each other.

  • Sentimental words to the couple

Here is how you bring down the house, close the speech with the words – “meant to be” or a love quote and bring on the tears.

  •  A simple Salutation – Cheers!!!

Pretty simple, but you be surprised how many people forget to actually “TOAST” the couple and take a sip of their drink.

Follow the formula and we promise you will give a speech they everyone will enjoy. Here are a few more things we think you should also keep in mind while giving the speech.

Speech TIPS:

1.       Own the Room and be Confident

2.       Make it SHORT and Organized

3.       Don’t talk about Yourself

4.       Inside Jokes don’t work

5.       Make the couple look Awesome

6.       Write it down

7.       Practice

Benjamin Clifford Photography

Benjamin Clifford Photography

Benjamin Clifford Photography

Benjamin Clifford Photography

At the end of the day remember - the couple thinks you are pretty awesome! 

xoxo